The most common comment of victims who think they have found the love of their life is "I can't believe I was so stupid!
The Nigerian dating scams are hugely profitable. The Nigerians call them 'maghas' which is slang for gullible white people. The scammers spend their day trolling the dating sites and chat rooms for contact emails, and then send off thousands of fraudulent letters and emails awaiting the victim's replies. They are offering the chance of finding true love and happiness, and there are plenty of takers!
However sooner or later, the vulnerable hearts receive requests that will ultimately lead to financial losses and heartbreak.
The scammers choose chat rooms and dating sites because the person in love offers the chance of the biggest payoffs. How Does the Scam Work? The Nigerian dating scams are often not easy to detect as the scammers are often highly educated, have exceptional patience and they do their homework!
The scammers start by stealing a photo from an internet site. They prefer to use images of white people capitalising on stereotypes and perceptions.
The photos are usually of beautiful people and the quality of the photo is high. If you think you are being scammed, go to this site and browse all the photos to see if the person you are communicating has a photo on this site. Then you will know for sure it is a scam!
However they also use photos taken from profiles of other people on dating sites, so remember that the photos that scammers use are not photos of themselves - they are photos of innocent victims. They also use many aliases, emails, photos, gender, age and sexual orientation in order to cast their net to catch as many victims as possible.
Often the scammers use attractive female photo profiles because lots of men will respond to an attractive woman's personal ad based on the photo alone. They also tend to target middle-aged people looking for stable relationships. The rationale is that this type of person is likely to be more desperate, gullible and financially stable.
They then post ads with fake profiles on online dating sites. They also lurk in chat rooms and social networking sites as well as Christian and other religious-based dating sites.
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They then spend months chatting up and luring their naive targets with online intimacy. They often pretend to be foreign specialists [from the US, UK or Canada, but can be any European country]temporarily working in Nigeria or other African country. A slight twist is is when the scammer pretends to live in the same country as the victim, and once a relationship has developed, then advise they are required to go to a west African country on an assignment.
Some of the sophisticated scammers send cheap presents such as flowers or candy [from stolen credit cards] to capture the hearts of lonely women. Then they choose one of two approaches. They either advise that their employer pays them with Money Orders and they can't cash them in Nigeria or are having trouble cashing them. Then they convince their soul mates to bank them into their bank account and then wire them the money via Western Union.
They are often told to keep some of the money for their trouble [which helps to build trust and also helps make them an accessory to the crime! After a few weeks the bank will advise the Money Orders are fraudulent and then the victim is responsible for paying the money back to the bank, and in some cases face charges of passing counterfeit instrument.
Sometimes the scammer purchases goods with stolen credit cards but have trouble getting them delivered as many US merchants are now wary of shipping to Nigeria. They ask if their soul mate can re-ship them to Nigeria. Or the alternative is to say their wallet has been stolen, hotel owner holding their passport, custom officials need to be bribed, new plane tickets are needed, they have been victimized and put in jail and need money to bribe their way out, or they need money for an operation etc.
The reasons for needing the money will sound plausible. Regardless of the series of mishaps, the end result is the same - the cyber soul mate is asked to send money!
How to Spot the Nigerian Dating Scams The person is new to the website or hasn't logged in many times The photo looks like a model or looks 'too good to be true' The profile is not well written You are asked to go straight from on-site messaging to off-site messaging such as regular email or instant messaging [to prevent the dating site administrators seeing the evidence of the scam and kicking them off the site] The scammer will shun live video chat because the photo is fake.
The excuse they will give is lack of technology in Nigeria. Do you have any experience or knowledge of the Nigerian Dating Scams to help others. Share your story, tip or review with the world. Enter Your Title e. Nigerian Dating Scams Review Share your story, tip, or review with the world!
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Upload Pictures [? Click the button and find the first one on your computer. Select it and click on the button to choose it. Then click on the link if you want to upload up to 3 more images. A year ago today we went on our first date…and as they say, the rest was history. He and I are a dating site success story. So we feel that we clicked the second time around because we were meant to. However, we kept talking and texting, leaning on each other when needed, and a month later we went on our first date.
From the moment I set eyes on him, I lost my heart. I gave him a hug as soon as I climbed out of my van and it felt right. From that first hug I felt safe and secure, something no one else has made me feel. And then I kissed him and it left us both with racing hearts. People can judge me for it all they want, but something compelled me to kiss him at that very moment, and I did.
We still laugh about it because it was so shocking to both of us. And it showed on both of our faces that night. The day was a raging success. It was so easy to be around each other. We knew it was the beginning of something special. We had to struggle with living so far apart. Also, it has been filled with drama from outside sources.
We kept holding on and believing in each other. We fought for us because we were far happier and more secure than we had ever been before. I can honestly say that he brings out the best parts of me and mellows out the worst parts, like my moodiness. He can calm me down like no one else can. A simple hug from him can ease a panic attack.
Sleeping beside him at night makes me feel safe. I feel like I found my other half, the yin to my yang. And we became immensely important to each other, so we mark that as the beginning.
But our One Year Anniversary of our first date is today, and that deserves to be recognized. I went on a Pinterest search, as I so often do, and came across this project below on the site Life Love Laurenand I fell in love with it.
Thank you, Lauren, for sharing this idea with all of us. My boyfriend loved it. And if you do, please link back to me so I can read your posts.
I think this is such a beautiful idea and a way to make our significant others feel good. Stacey is an Army wife of a soldier who joined in He has since been medically retired but she continues to provide information to Army wives and families to make their adjustment to the Army lifestyle easier. They are always out of the US, they are widowed, they all fall in love in less than a week, they ask for you to request TS2 and money.
They never have access to video chat, in order for you to verify if that person is real. All the pictures they provide are totally random, but making sure you can see their names in their uniforms. What have I learned from all this experience? Apparently because of that, these people creates false identities and emails through Yahoo. They will say they are German, Polish or from other country descendants to justify their accent when you have a phone conversation with them.
They are really Muslims, so they will be in church all day. They will ask you about your activities during the day, and you will tell them about doing the laundry, cooking and cleaning, and they will saying how proud of finding a woman with those qualities. Woman for them are just maids and laborers. Who the heck fall in love in less than a month without having met in person yet or at least through Skype????
Be careful, and mostly if your have children.
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Never, ever share any information about them. I hope I have bring some helpful information. We are living through very hard times, so we need to be cautious. Reply Link emily September 12,3: Reply Link corinne July 17,5: This guy said he was a mechanical engineer which blew his cover.
He said he was deployed to Syria. He said he was a widower with a 15 year-old daughter who he leaves with a nanny when he is not in the states.