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Notably, while I myself have always lived and mostly hung out in mainstream outer suburbs of Bangkok except the first 5 months I was hererather than the tourist and expat entertainment centers, I know both realms quite well, and I nonetheless do not judge bargirls or that line of professional services as "bad" in general, nor do I believe that what's right for myself is "right" for all guys, tourist or expat.
There are advantages and disadvantages to both, and it's a matter of your lifestyle, situation and values. In any case, it is important to see the differences between the foreigner-oriented subculture areas and mainstream Thai ladies.
While I see the differences in most ladies right away, most guys I go around with are obviously unattuned, usually guys whose "formative experiences" with Thai ladies were in the prostitution zones. A lot depends on one's "born in" environment, alternatives, age, genetic appearance, upbringing, lifestyle, preferences, values, interests, etc. Whichever serves you best. It's your free will, and everyone's different.
Thailand is a relatively free, live-and-let-live, relatively nonjudgemental and understanding country. As long as one is not harming others, and has only good intentions, then live and let live. It is intended that this guide will help you to positively understanding Thai culture and its different "sectors", so that you can find the best match es for what is best for your life.
It is important that you understand the differences between foreign culture and Thai subcultures as regards girlfriends and acquaintances. In my opinion, the "fault" is often the man's, not the lady's, though it varies from one failed relationship to another, even if the "fault" is more or less a lack of understanding by the man. Commonly, there is danger of outright scams to get the foreigner guy's money, whereby the lady is clearly the guilty one, of being grossly dishonest and tricky, such as agreeing to a monogamous relationship while behaving otherwise, and just after the guy's money, often careless of the havoc they wreak on the guy's life, children, wife, and business responsibilities.
Bad news travels much further than good news, and it's my observation that a lot of the negative internet traffic is out of proportion with the positive side of overall reality. Surely, most happy guys are not out on bargirl forums, but I think it's also just the nature of the internet and news in general to be negative and sensational, keeping peoples interest and juices going. It is a fact that many ex-bargirls become faithful and good wives. I know of many. However, the majority do not, and trickery is common.
A mainstream Thai lady is usually monogamous by her very nature. However, a mainstream lady might not be a good match to you.
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You might want multiple girlfriends instead, enjoy some diversity and freedom, not care about the Thai family life, bored and restless with the Thai mindset while headstrong in your own ways and routines, etc. Nevertheless, the pitfalls of relationships with Thai ladies are not limited to bargirls, as "mainstream" Thai ladies vary as much as mainstream ladies do in your own country.
Most mainstream Thai ladies are faithful, and money's usually not a big issue, but not always, and there are a lot of other things to consider in both friendship and mating relationships. This general discussion will continue below the following services which we suggest. Thailand Private Investigators If you have a Thai girlfriend who you are investing a lot of time, money, emotion and energy into, but you are experiencing some bad signs which lead you to believe she might be tricking you, then we would suggest you hire a discreet private investigation service -- sooner rather than later.
Such "insurance" can be well worth the peace of mind or else the cutting of your losses. For discreet private investigative services, e. In both discreet surveillance and interactive tasks, a Thai lady matched to each task is usually better accepted than a man.
That website includes some interesting case studies -- investigation experiences journaled there!
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However, some cases require a foreign man -- such as entering a go-go bar and operations there, where a Thai lady cannot go non-employees. I would strongly suggest that you use only a truly reputable private investigator. You can find a lot of people who have used them. Particularly as regards bargirls, sending lots of money -- a Thai lady "investment without investigator" -- is risky business indeed.
Another issue is the Thai-English language barrier. Are you establishing a relationship with thorough enough communications? Language barriers in communicating concepts completely is a challenge, and it is important to make sure you understand each other on important issues rather than be limited in what you can say and still be understood or misunderstoodso that you form the best bond.
Thai ladies have many natural advantages over Western ladies, but language can be a serious limitation. A quality translation service can help you two establish the initial bond. For occasional Thai-English translations of important e-mails and other documents, try www.
Their young translators have university degrees in English and do professional translations, so the quality is good, but they also do love letters, which is considered light and refreshing to them. They are happy for this link. If you rely on an internet cafe translator for a former bargirl, you run two risks. One is that the "translator" is actually a "bargirl dependant" the bargirl is her customer, not you for writing love letters, so that you are actually corresponding with the translator as much as your girlfriend, possibly getting the translator's standard responses and writings, more or less.
Secondly, some internet cafe translators actually don't have a very good English vocabulary especially slang.
Meaning is "lost in translation". If you go with a professional operation like www. They are also quick and reliable, as they employ many translators and have a well organized operation. The translators and the private investigators are two different groups of people located near each other in the same office building location, but are two entirely separate in operations, i.
The only drawback is that they are not located in the expat regions, instead being located in northern Bangkok, whereby walk-ins require a trip, so it's usually better to deal with them by email, fax, and postal mail. They do go out to meet some customers in Bangkok not as possible girlfriends!
Thai lady relationship scams are common against foreigners, especially foreign men who travel outside of Thailand. These almost never hit the news.
However, it sometimes happens to Thai men, too, and this investigative journalism was the result of a scammed Thai man going to investigators: February 22, Lady email scam - iTV documentary iTV a local Thai TV station aired a documentary about a Thai man who was scammedbaht by a Thai lady in another town via email, who sent him her photo and mobile number, spoke politely, offered a relationship and implicitly sex, and cried on the phone saying she needed hospital money or she would die of leukemia.
The story had many of the typical steps of a scam relationship, targeting a gullible and generous man, and building up to large money requests. However, after sending the money to her bank, he got suspicious.
After all, he had never met this lady, only seen her photo by internet and spoke with her by phone. He was a lonely man in a distant part of Thailand. A private investigator with an iTV crew tracked her down. She was a fat and ugly lady with a computer connected to the internet, photos of pretty ladies in her room some whom she knewand lots of money. Her only job was scamming men by internet dating via the web. This is not uncommon, as well as similar scams using email, mobile phones, landline call centers and proxies to answer the phones.
Expats overseas are more vulnerable, but the scammers sometimes do these kinds of things to Thai men as well. Notably, over the years, I've known a few guys who came to Thailand to visit a lovely lady he met in internet dating, really the lady in the photo, only to find she apparently didn't know about a lot of things they emailed and text chatted about.
The Thailand Private Investigations group has experienced multiple guys come with the same photo of the same pretty lady but she's using different names with different guys. I also know the webmaster of an internet dating site, and he has shown me collections of photos of reported scammers and suspected scammers reported by users as well as his own observations.
I was awed how rampant it is, a fulltime home based business in and of itself, almost akin to phishing. There's no saving the world, and I wouldn't even try, at least not this way see my alternaive website, permanent.
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You can only save yourself and some friends and associates. These scams hurt innocent Thai ladies "by association" nationality. Most Thai ladies are sincere, but the image of Thai ladies is damaged by scammers like these.
How common are they? No reliable statistics are known. How do you collect statistics on that? From my observations, however, especially gathering statistics from internet dating sites which try to identify and filter scammers as best they can, I can say it's big business and a huge chunk of the foreigner-oriented assertive Thai lady meat market.
Some are outright scams where the person on the other end of the line is trying to get money from multiple guys without ever truly meeting them. Others are grey area.