Why are couples of Western women and Chinese men -- such as me and my husband -- so rare? In September -- my first month in China -- I had a huge crush on a guy. Welcome to /r/ibac2017india.com is driven by user submitted content. If you want to improve the sub, make a contribution! Welcome to /r/China. If you are new, please read our posting guidelines and search the subreddit for commonly answered questions. But it's subtle, and of course, few would admit to surfing online dating sites for Chinese women, yet when the only girls they date are Chinese. The question is why do some Chinesse women prefer to date white men. It doesn't mention other races or skin colors. Yes. Exotic creates interest, but most Asian women who consider men outside their culture have little interest in darker men.